26. Undress each other
Taking each other’s clothes off can be very sexy and, if you’ve planned it in advance, you can make sure you both have nice underwear on that looks and feels sensuous to the touch.


27. Massage each other
Invest a little money in some oils and candles and then try massaging each other. Make sure you lie on your front and just let the hands and fingers do the walking. And, if neither of you are squeamish about it, foot massage can also be very erotic. It means you can massage each other at the same time, should you so wish.

28. Small kisses 
Work your way all the way down the body using little butterfly kisses. Use your tongue sparingly and try not to snog. Instead lightly caress his skin with your lips. The longer you avoid his genitals, the more turned on he’ll get. 

29. Change the scenery
Try making the living-room or another room the scene for some action. If it makes it easier and more comfortable, bring down the duvet and some cushions/pillows. 

30. Pleasure yourself in front of each other
This might take a bit of getting used to, but both of you will become enormously turned on, whether you’re the watcher or the watched.

21. Take a bath together
Dim the lights, light the candles, use some nice scented bubble bath and hop in. It’s another way to get close to each other and build up suspense. If your bath isn’t big enough…

22. Share a shower. 
Wash each other all over with a sponge without any intimate touching - it can be very erotic and will get you both in the mood.

23. Take photos of each other
 you could send him a saucy snap taken on your mobile. Get him to return the compliment. It’s a very effective form of foreplay. 

24. Tie each other up.
We’re not suggesting heavy bondage - just use some silk scarves or stockings instead. You can then tease whoever is pinned to the chair/bed and leave them panting for more. Just make sure the knots aren’t too tight.

25. Get the feathers out. 
Get a couple of feathers out and use them on each other’s body during foreplay. The feeling of them on your skin will give each of you a sexy 

11. Eat salmon. 
Obviously, it’s a great choice for dinner, but it’s also known as a sexual powerhouse. The vitamins in salmon will help lift the libido, it contains mood-enhancing Omega-3 oils and is protein rich, which is good for stamina.

12. Turn off the lights 
In fact, go one step further and blindfold each other. By getting rid of the sense of sight, you’ll be forced to use your other senses. 

13. Don’t touch his private parts 
By not going for the one place he’s desperate for you to touch, you’ll drive him wild. Delay it as long as possible and when you do get there, make only the faintest touch at first. 

14. Text him
Build up the suspense throughout the day by sending him messages telling him what you want to do to him and what you want him to do to you

15. Make noises 
Moaning will not only make you concentrate on what’s going on, it’ll make him feel excited and want to do more.

16. Wear high heels
Very few men can resist a woman in heels and what’s more, recent research suggests it can do wonders or your pelvic floor muscles. They also make your legs look longer and more shapely. A guaranteed turn-on for your fella. 

17. Suck his finger
Do it in public. Just take his little finger in your mouth and swirl it around. It doesn’t look like much to anyone who sees you do it, but believe us, it’ll get him pretty turned on.

18. Talk dirty
It doesn’t have to be an epic, but try imagining the most dirty, erotic story you can think of it and then tell it. We know it may feel weird to start with, but only you and him will hear it, so just go for it. Make sure he can’t touch you while you’re telling it, as well. 

19. Use food 
Eating with your hands and using food you can smear on each other’s bodies is fun and sexy. 

20. Be naughty
Men are primitive beasts and they love something a little different - whether it’s a little light smacking, dressing up, or even going out wearing no knickers and then whispering it to him when you’re in the middle of a big crowd

10. Ice ice baby
If you’re performing oral sex on your fella, try popping an ice cube in your mouth halfway through - the sensation as it goes from warm to cold will drive him wild.

9. Choose the right music 
Having the right tunes playing in the background can improve your bedroom experience. The right rhythm will make your lovemaking far more enjoyable. 

8. Do a strip-tease
It doesn’t have to look professional, as long as you move seductively in front of him and slowly take off your clothes. Don’t allow him to touch either - this will turn him on even mor

7. Turn off the TV

You may love watching what your favourite characters are up to in your tv show, but it’s a bit of a passion killer. Hit the off button and pay attention to each other. 

6. Drink coffee

 Research has indicated that a couple of cups of coffee could well boost the female libido. Even if that’s not 100% guaranteed, the caffeine will improve your concentration - very important if you’re getting hot and steamy in the bedroom

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5. Surprise your partner 

Put on some sexy lingerie one evening after work and wait for him. Don’t let him touch you, dominate and lead him to the bedroom

4. Engage in foreplay 
It’s easy to forget that foreplay is all part of your sex life. Make sure you have enough foreplay with your partner until you’re both ready for intercourse. Prolong it by putting your clothes on, go out for a drink or a meal. Keep the evening going on as long as you can until you have to run home for the most intense sex ever! 

3. Talk. One of the best sex tips we can recommend is to tell your partner what you’re enjoying and why, even what could be done to make the sex better; faster slower etc. The sure-fire way to better sex time and time again!

2. Enjoy each other’s bodies 
Give each other compliments, pay special attention to a person’s less favourite bits, make them feel desired and sexy. Body confidence is sexual gold!

1. Be confident 

It’s the sexiest thing any woman can do to turn on her man - take control and be sure about what you want and how you want it done.